First, note: / by the time she arrives at the birth suite, the mother will already be underwater / sunk and rolling / unravelling across the horizon / you must find her / you must bring her in…

from “Print 2 copies and keep in birthing bag”, 2022

A poem inspired by the strange irony of making ‘birth plans’.

Print 2 copies and keep in birthing bag

             First, note: / by the time she arrives at the birth suite, the mother will already be underwater / sunk and rolling / unravelling across the horizon / you must find her / you must bring her in / this is the birth plan we / have made together / there must be scented candles / clary sage / juice and muesli-bars we plan / that she will be able to eat / will be able to walk / will catch the lift / find herself in a strange country / you call it her body / she will just breathe / please do not offer drugs / please do not crossly examine / a dimly-lit room with relaxing music / the atmosphere calm with no unnecessary / it is the birth partner who will call the parents / the birth partner will call the press / do you understand? he says / do you realise what is coming— we have made / a playlist / we require wifi / you will have our cooperation should a medical need arise / while she is rising and falling / while delving and coming up empty / avoid referring to ‘thresholds’ or ‘levels’ / that she is located somewhere in the Atlantic should be enough / at this point the mother will start to resemble her mother / a mirror may help to reflect her progress but do not let the mother see her face / she begins to be haunted / the spine cracks / ragged flags wave in imaginary wind / she is surging / she is in storm / it’s all part of the plan / her body now scattered far-and-wide across many oceans / the birthing person will be supported in the bath by wife / husband / mother-in-law / oldest friend / intermittent Doppler or EFM / never insert your fingers into a surging birther / please do not move her until it has passed / assume birthing positions of choice / the midwife will make coffee / none if the membranes have released / the midwife should be like an old school chum / the partner / will learn the romantic languages of birth / to teach gently / while you attend / surge they will say, not ‘contraction’ / intensity never fucking pain never ohhhhHHH GOHHHHDDDDD /   not  ‘failure to progress’ /     just. /   what—   /    what is happening???  / minimal (if any) vaginal examinations / patience to allow without ‘moving things along’ / the birthing parent will enter a / state of hypnosis / they cannot really / hear you / the birthing parent / is no longer ‘I’ / is no longer / future / the birther speaks / all present tense / all tongues of beasts / they bellow buffalo / they roar brown bear / they are wounded shrike / and wailing ghost-gum / they are disappearing / they are lost / the birth partner will bear / all bruises and despair / the birth partner will quietly, wisely leave the plan / crumpling under sweaty knee / will breathe as one / say at once they have never been this close / the birth partner will forget the contraction-counting app / leave it running / for three years  

          Finally, the mother will give birth to herself / a co-parent / two sets grandparents / ancestors / a universe / and also death / delay cord clamping until after pulsation has ceased / this is our birth plan / we look forward to sharing this special time with you / it is now 28, 865 hours, 27 minutes and 48 seconds since the last contraction

‘Print 2 copies and keep in birthing bag’ appears in Australian Poetry Journal 12.1, edited by Esther Ottaway and Scott-Patrick Mitchell. Purchase >>

Three years after my daughter came into the world, I came to appreciate the irony of creating a ‘birth plan’. For me, the reality of going through a 54-hour labour was so divergent from my understanding of clinically ‘normal’ birth, I was still questioning it two years later. Did I count the days wrongly? Had I drastically misunderstood what occurred in my own body?

I know my experience is a minor thread among the many ways that women’s and birthing parents’ voices are made irrelevant in their own birth stories. I so deeply appreciated the editors’ custodianship of these themes in issue 12.1. It allowed me to explore the inevitability of divergence in the especially personal and embodied experience of birthing, whether it follows a clinically ‘normal’ path or not.

A birth poem.

Three Secrets


I did not give birth to my daughter.
After labouring two days, three long nights,
she was trapped in the tight bindings of my body.
A doctor cut through to release her—

		maybe that doctor gave birth to my daughter.
There were dozens of people
who climbed from their beds in dim night and
converged on the fluorescent beacon of the hospital
to invite my baby into that white air—

 		maybe they all gave birth to my daughter.
I surrendered to the table, made a kind of peace.
Lines ran into my outstretched arms
and a blue curtain dismembered
the lower half of my senses while

		the scalpel gave birth to my daughter.
My baby’s heart was steady as a drum
until she rose up stunned
through that surprising doorway

		as if she gave birth to herself—
when I could not. All I gave
were these inadequate 

Later, I could not stop chasing the story of myself.
I found my likeness as the mother of Asclepius
when he was extracted from me:

		a myth that gave birth to my daughter.  

I found 
my earliest human form in 1580		my husband
took a knife to me		the husband was a pigfarmer
and I lived 	for a week.
Even after
the invention of anaesthetic		they sometimes refused to use it because God said,
Woman Must Suffer to Bring Forth Children.

I found
a woman upon whose body 	history has carved 	a thousand notches 	
to remember every incremental breakthrough. 	She is supine in stone	
in bas-relief	in charcoal drawings 	always lifeless and naked 	
with all her secrets spilled out on the ground.
It turns my stomach to look at her 
but I have to— 

it is she
in her endless stillness
who gave birth to my daughter.


They lay my baby down beside me.
Her tiny nose		presses my cheek
her eyes		seek me out
like she
has given birth
to me.

‘Three Secrets’ was shortlisted for the South Coast Writers Centre Poetry Award, 2021.

The melancholy magic of walking in the Blue Mountains.


It’s not right to be awake late at night, here:
there’s secret business down in the gully
between the darkness and the trees

and it must be obeyed. So I wait until
the morning’s walk to bear news of our liaison 
to the discerning ferns. My skin carries 

your heat. The daring stringybarks shed 
their robes, and discard them in heaps 
at their feet. They step lithely down to the creek,

dip their toes in the cool dark water. 
(Sometimes we find they have died in the night,
and fallen headlong into it.) And today,

the thick old chopping block is shredded
to rags.  I stand on the deck and watch clouds
whip themselves black, and you speak me

that impossible verse, twisting your hat 
to a furball in your nervousness. Nobody
intervenes. But night falls again on Blackheath.                                                  

So we follow the law of the storm 
the way the beasts keep each other warm.
intervenes. But night falls again 

on Blackheath. So we follow the law of the storm
the way the beasts keep each other warm. 

‘Blackheath’ appears in Cordite Poetry Review 103 ‘Amble’, edited by Sarah Gory and Elena Gomez. Read >>

The obligatory pandemic poem! Or, how the inside of my head looked after 91 days of lockdown.

91 Days 

’91 Days’ appears in Best of Australian Poems 2021, edited by Ellen van Neerven and Toby Fitch. Purchase >>

A poem of desire.

and then 

                      in the deep moisture of a subtropical / night in August / we both know / it is time for our bodies to meet / as we clean our teeth / I rehearse / my breathless fear / that you will be weak and worn out / that your skin will be clammy / that you won’t reach me / yours is a body I can’t read / it is closed and enclosed / in presupposition / in warnings / in social quarantine / I fear / that the story of this night will be / that I love you but lovemaking is merely endurable / yet I can’t keep my hands off you / as we slide into sheets and the creek pulls darkness over its sleek / uninhibited progress and you touch me like / reaching the sun on the other side / of the earth you are all right there / surging to the surface of your thin limbs / you kiss like wild ginger / pushing itself against the moon / your touch is like / depth charges in / open ocean / a soundless / booming / over and over / it is still felt / in my depths / right now / years later / where I try to trace the imprint of us / in a language / tainted by horror of sickness / tainted by saviours with other needs / than the pure thundering desire / that leaps over my tact / as I forget / to love you tender but press / your light frame with my full weight / as I consume your sweat / your salt and vinegar exudings / and your sweet tenacious breath / I / climb toward / you / hand over hand / wrapping your DNA around my wrist / making my way along your genetic chains / seeking out a language that is worthy / of touching your body / when all our words have been spent / on the ways that you are incomplete / when it tells me you are ailing / emaciated / hunched / infected / and my pleasure says: English, you’re drunk! Go home! / and all my nerves and organs rise in fury to inscribe / this passion upon its absence / here where our bodies meet as equals / here where you pull away gasping for air / where infirmity and eros have / the same oceanic eyes / where language leaves us to this / slow stroking of soft / white curtains / blowing over our bodies / at dawn

‘and then’ appears in Australian Poetry Anthology 2020, edited by Melinda Smith and Sara Saleh. Purchase >>

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